Does the potential for sexual abuse have its roots in childhood?
I’ve been wondering lately about our human tendency to readily give away our power. I’m thinking that, as with most everything, it has its roots in childhood. We’re born powerful, right? When we cry, good parents come running. They feed us, burp us, amuse us, change our diaper and take care of our every need. […]
What Is The Allure of Wealthy Older Men?
In a later post, we’ll look at the lasting impact of sexual abuse. But first, let’s take a peek at what enticed young girls to take part in the sexual abuse of Jeffrey Epstein and his cronies. We’ve talked about why men are attracted to preying on vulnerable girls. But what was the allure from […]
Why do young women like older men?
Young women may feel it’s a status symbol to be with an older man. Men of wealth, success and power have a certain cachet. They impress with their confidence, financial stability, and sophisticated worldly ways. Younger guys lack the social smarts and self-assurance. Not to mention, they have no gas money. And sometimes they have […]
Why would men of power and privilege open themselves to potential extortion?
The age of #MeToo has broken open the discussion of sexual assaults on women by powerful men. Men such as movie mogul Harvey Weinstein, television icon Bill Cosby and now (say it isn’t so!) the esteemed tenor, Placido Domingo. But my focus in this series is something more heinous. Jeffrey Epstein’s alleged sex trafficking ring […]
Why would a grown man be attracted to adolescent girls?
Well, for one thing, adolescent girls are beautiful. And men have beautiful women on the brain. That was the finding of a 3-year brain science study in which heterosexual men were shown pictures of attractive men and women. Scientists measured their brains’ responses through functional magnetic resonance imaging (fMRI). What they found was startling . […]
Why do men desire younger women?
So I had been asking myself: Why do men desire younger women? Is there “a seed of evolutionary truth” to the idea that men “naturally” prefer younger women? Aware that I might be seeing this psychological piece from a biased female point of view, I asked some men of my acquaintance – friends, clients and […]
Jeffrey Epstein and the Dark Side of a Man’s Fantasy
Jeffrey Epstein had been convicted in 2008 for soliciting an underage girl for prostitution. And still his sex-trafficking operation for wealthy men continued to grow. How was that possible? Because Jeffrey Epstein the Narcissistic Sociopath knew that men are hard-wired to desire younger women. That young girls make older men feel younger and desired. That […]
Jeffrey Epstein – Portrait of a Charismatic, Conniving Pedophile and Narcissistic Sociopath
Idon’t know whether we will ever grasp the inner workings of Jeffrey Epstein. Here was a man who felt he was rich enough to do whatever he wanted. Too big to fail. A cunning man whose conscience was clear because he didn’t have one. Perhaps that was his path to happiness. As the poet wrote: […]
Thoughts on Sexual Abuse, Psychological Trauma, the Jeffrey Epsteins of the World, and how to take back control of your life after abuse
I was talking to a friend the other day about the impact of sexual abuse on the lives of young girls. And, in particular, those who got caught up in Jeffrey Epstein’s sex-trafficking schemes. And about the fact that sexual exploitation went virtually unmentioned for decades until social media gave birth to the #MeToo movement. […]
Thoughts On Jeffrey Epstein, Abuse And Psychological Trauma
The following series explores the impact of sexual crimes on women, challenges the belief that it is impossible to heal, and suggests how we can take back control after abuse.